kata-kata hikmah

if you love someone, set them free. if they come back they're yours, if they dont they never were.

good friends are hard to find, harder to leave, and impossible to forget

surely everybody must have seen those inspirational quotes or advice be it on fb, twitter, tumbler, or whatever there is. some even posted themselves maybe to motivate others or maybe to motivate oneself or maybe just for fishing likes/upvotes. cliche type would be a quote with an unnecessary background picture just to deepen the emotion of the readers. anyway i dont really go against those people posting these quotes. well if it can motivate people why not? nothing wrong about it.

one thing I'm always wondering is that when people post these quotes mostly i see are that they are directing the quotes to people around them. one who just broke up with partner, or dumped, or even not being able to get a partner post these relationship quotes just to make oneself feel better. one  can have a quarrel with friends  and start to post quotes like true friend dont back stab you blablabla. why? yeah i know the answer is to make one feels better but do we use these quotes as a way to look at ourselves? do we use it as a way to reflect on our actions and behaviours? i dont see many people do that. you can say those people are not true friends when they abandon you but you dont even realize your action itself may be the cause to the abandonment.

sometimes we are so into judging, advicing, preaching the people,community,the world to be better but we forget to judge, advice, and preach ourselves. goodness cant spread from something bad.